Make Your Own Opportunities
Written by Leigh Rautenbach
In a world where it’s easy to sit back and wait for things to happen, Monique de Wet, Managing Director of Talent Network Global (TNG), embodies a different philosophy. She believes in taking charge, rolling up your sleeves, and cultivating your own success.
Monique’s approach is rooted in the metaphor of gardening. “You need to buy the land, toil the soil, sow the seeds, water with diligence and patience, and then watch that garden grow,” she emphasizes. This analogy speaks volumes about her mindset – one of proactive engagement with life. Instead of passively waiting for opportunities to come knocking, she encourages individuals to create their own opportunities through hard work, dedication, and perseverance.
But Monique’s philosophy extends beyond just professional success. She believes in taking responsibility for one’s emotional well-being as well. “You need to be responsible for what happens in your heart,” she asserts. For her, this involves living intentionally, practicing kindness, forgiving often, and being gracious. And her favorite embodiment of this ethos? Buying her own flowers every week.
“I buy mine every week,” Monique shares with a smile. “It reminds me that I don’t need to wait for someone else to bring beauty into my life; I can make it happen myself.” This simple act of self-care serves as a powerful reminder that happiness and fulfillment are within our grasp, waiting to be cultivated and nurtured.
Don’t wait for someone to bring you flowers. Plant your own garden and decorate your own soul.” — Luther Burbank
Plant the Seeds of Your Dreams
Monique’s words resonate deeply in a world where it’s easy to get caught up in the hustle and bustle, waiting for external validation or recognition. Her message is clear: take ownership of your life, both professionally and personally. Plant the seeds of your dreams, tend to them with care, and watch them blossom into reality. And don’t forget to buy your own flowers along the way – because true happiness begins with nurturing your own soul.
